forever reblog
Relationships
Stuck. I don’t understand this thing called “love”. All I want is to find someone I like and who likes me back. Why does one have to choose between being a “settler” or a “reacher”. I don’t want to be either, I want it to be where I fall in love with him and he falls in love with me equally, where no one has to “reach” for the other or “settle” for the other. But life is not perfect and one must be a “reacher” or a “settler”. Rarely are two people lucky enough to find each other and have what the fairy tales call “love at first sight”. I wonder if that will ever happen to me. I wonder if I’ll even be lucky enough to have the choice of being a “reacher” or a “settler”. I wonder if anyone will be able to stay in love with me for eternity and for me to love him back equally. Love is complicated.
